I just don't get it....

Thu, Apr 21, 2011 at 5:12 PM By: NYRoach93

I've never blogged before, but I heard it's great for the head, so I'm gonna just let my thoughts flow here...
Yesterday, my cousin Tim was in a terrible car accident. Apparently it was pretty serious. So serious that his legs were crushed, and the doctors don't know if they will be able to save them. Now I'm not a big God person, but in a case like this, sometimes I just have to wonder, what's God's deal anyway? You see Tim was a great person. And I'm not saying that because I'm his cousin. He was a special education teacher, and even though he went through hell as a kid, he still managed to maintain a positive outlook on life. He was always smiling, always looking up, and did everything he could to make others laugh. So I can't help but ask myself, why the hell did this happen to him? Did God just figure if he could handle special ed. kids everyday, he could handle possibly loosing his legs? Well sorry God, but I think that's crap.


  1. NYRoach93 avatar

    On Apr 23, NYRoach93 said:

    Aww I'm really sorry about your grandmother :( I totally understand. It just seems so cruel to keep someone suffering for so long, just to have them die in the end anyway. I keep trying to tell myself that everything happens for a reason, but it doesn't really help to ease the pain.

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    On Apr 23, NYRoach93 said:

    Thanks I really appreciate that :) My family isn't all that religious so, as you can probably tell, I'm pretty clueless about God, and Christianity in general really. Thanks so much for the links. Hopefully they'll help me gain a little more insight =)

  3. MamaRoach916 avatar

    On Apr 22, MamaRoach916 said:

    Ok, I debated on whether I was going to comment on this. First of all, let me say that I am sorry for your family and your cousin. It really does suck that bad things happen to good people. Secondly, let me offer you you some insight from a Christian perspective. God doesn't make bad things happen. God grieves with us when such happenings occur. I'm not going to get preachy, because honestly, that's not my style. I'll leave you with some links and if there is anything you want to discuss, I'm free to listen. Just shoot me an email.


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    On Apr 22, Jenko said:

    no way 'god' exists, n if he does he's a dick...

  5. On Apr 21, "No*Matter*What" said:

    I totally understand, my great grandomother really, we called her grandmother, was 87, but fell when she was 86, and broke a bone in her neck, well none of the doctors knew that so she lived for a year with the pain in her neck. This past January she went in for surgery to fix her neck and that was the last time I saw her. She was in a coma for a week then she died. She is gone and I wonder why? Why did you make her suffer a year with the neck pains just to kill her when her family needs her.

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