1. PapaRoachPunk avatar

    On Nov 01, PapaRoachPunk said:

    What a beautiful photo of you and Jane you have, hun. I know tomorrow is going to be almost unbearable, but you musn't think that there is a right or wrong way to grieve. You will deal with grief the way your body tells you. Jane knows how much you loved her and always will. I'll be thinking of you, much love x

  2. Vetinari avatar

    On Nov 01, Vetinari said:

    not crying when family die doesnt mean your strange in the head, just means that you dont deal with those things in that way

    I know monday wont be easy for you, funerals aint easy for anyone. I do hope that monday isnt to hard for you

  3. themudsharkinterview avatar

    On Nov 01, themudsharkinterview said:

    I didn't cry once when my Grandad died. Then someone mentioned chutney and I just lost it. How to overcome grief is very complex and reactions to it vary in everyone. Many people have differences; obviously this could be from what a peron cries over or what a person finds funny.

    You are upset about this whole situation. Crying isn't the only way of emitting sadness. What if your family read some of the blogs you've wrote? Surely these could be proof enough.

  4. PapahhRoachhLoveer. avatar

    On Nov 01, PapahhRoachhLoveer. said:

    Jade,i've said this thirty times before the one thing i hate about you is you coming down waaay to hard on yourself.
    I didn't cry at my grandma's funeral infact i didn't cry at all...i hated myself for it but the tears would not come out that doesn't mean to say your not as sad as everyone else.. i really don't know what to say Jade what I do know is i'm shit loads sorry for you and cross my heart hope to die I mean that...
    Maybe your just thinking you won't cry maybe because of the atmosphere at the funeral you will...As always you'll be on my mind Spade but tommorrow more than usual ;) take care hunny lots of hugs x

  5. vern93 avatar

    On Oct 31, vern93 said:

    hey there right ur being too hard on urself. u are perfectly fine the way u are : ) ppl deal witht hings differently and ur right. she wouldnt have wanted u to keep on going on being miserable and crying. i know u can be strong for ur family and they wont hate u for it *hugs* im here if u need me but u can do this : )

  6. vern93 avatar

    On Oct 31, vern93 said:

    hey there right ur being too hard on urself. u are perfectly fine the way u are : ) ppl deal witht hings differently and ur right. she wouldnt have wanted u to keep on going on being miserable and crying. i know u can be strong for ur family and they wont hate u for it *hugs* im here if u need me but u can do this : )

  7. metalheaduk avatar

    On Oct 31, metalheaduk said:

    There is no right or wrong way of handling grief. Some people cry loads, others don't. I've unfortunately been to 4 funerals in the past 3 years and I handled each one differently. You're stronger than your think. Crying at the funeral doesn't mean your weak. I cried so much at my friend's funeral and my grandad's. Both times I felt stupid, but I realise now that I wasn't. I'm here via phone or facebook if you want to talk hun xxx

  8. Karina P avatar

    On Oct 31, Karina P said:

    You are being way too hard on yourself honey...everyone grieves in their own way and if you don't cry that does not mean that you are a bad person or that you are sick in the head...you just deal differently!! If your family knows you well enough they will know that this is how you deal and they will not judge you for it or think any less of you for it!! Hang in there sweets and you will get thru this. I will pray that God will give you the strength that you will need to get thru it!! He is always there, lean on Him anytime...Take care...hugs!! You have been on my mind...

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